Elsa and Vincent
Met 2024-12-02 11:00 at Chengdu Wenjun Courtyard Hotel, Chengdu, China.Both age 35. Elsa is one of four siblings, which was rare during the time of the one-child policy, and because of it, her father was fired from his job as mayor.
She hears the usual pressure to get married and have a baby, (which is more about face/honor for the parents), but when asked about it by elders, her aggressive reply back is, "How happy is your marriage?"
Elsa and Vincent have been together very happily for over 6 years with no plans for marriage or a baby. They're a great couple to witness. So good together. Both big personalities, complementary.
Vincent grew up in New York City then moved to China at age 21, intending to stay one year, but has been here ever since. They live in Changsha and flew here to meet me.
Changha is relatively noisy, hot, and crazy. Chengdu feels relatively peaceful to them.
They both make very healthy choices. Elsa adds one new healthy habit each month, and has been transformed by meditation this year. Vincent has a great diet, eats slowly. And they both are building a consumer-friendly air quality monitor and an air purifier. They plan to live somewhere tropical some day.