Diamond in the trash

When things aren’t going well, you’re in a bad state of mind. If you ask yourself a healthy question, like “What’s great about this?”, your answer will probably be “Nothing! This is just bad!”

Don’t be so sure. Push past that first thought. Keep asking. You can always find something useful.

Use what you learned about brainstorming. Don’t stop at the second or third answer. Come up with crazy ideas.

Use what you learned from jigsaw puzzles. Start with the edges. Come up with extreme and ridiculous ideas that you’d never actually do, but are good for inspiration and finding the middle.

We resist good ideas that require us to change. You think you’re not that kind of person? Not yet, but you can be. Keep all ideas around.

You seem to be locked in a jail cell. But if you know there’s actually a secret exit, you’ll look harder, pushing and pulling everything until you find it.

You seem to be holding a bag of trash. But if you know there’s actually a diamond inside, you’ll sift through the junk until you find it.

Your mind has a lot of trash, and often tells you there’s no way out of your situation — there’s nothing great about this. But if you decide that there is, you’ll keep looking until you find it.

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  1. Seth Barnes (2026-04-14)

    What a great thought experiment you propose here! Thanks for the gift this morning, Derek. I used it to propose a solution to a knotty problem to a coworker.

    I have tried to live this way over the years. Often, it complicates my life in the short-term in a world that lives circumscribed in cognitive boxes. But it has also been the secret to so many breakthroughs.

  2. Sean Crawford (2026-06-02)

    Yes, perspective is good.
    Before money inflation, and before the technology for cheaper soft contact lenses, a wife dropped her glass lens in the big trash can, looked for it, and gave up. Then her husband looked, and found it.

    She asked in amazement, "How in the world did you find that tiny lens?"

    He said, "Easy. You were looking for a teeny tiny lens...
    I was looking for fifty dollars."

    ...
    It's been decades, and I still remember that joke. To apply it: Maybe I'm looking at a very stiff door, or maybe I'm looking at the doorway to the yellow brick road.